Another good post about one of our member's experiences with hands free orgasm & estim!
So I’m finally having HFO’s and thought I’d share, seeing that it was reading a lot of posts and others experiences that helped get me there! I’ve had my gear for several months now (maybe 5 or so)? I got the corona stim, with urethra amplifier, the base ring (for around the base of the penis and balls) and the acrylic anal plug. Admittedly, the very first day I got my equipment I was so turned on by the whole idea I plugged into the corona stim and base ring and came pretty fast. It seemed easy (I was lucky or REALLY turned on) because the next several months produced no hfo’s. I tried different combinations and hook ups and they all felt very very good, sometimes right on the verge of cumming, but I could never seem to push it over the edge again.
I started reading a bunch of info and experiences online got inspired/excited and decided to try again with the theory that I was going to push the sensations farther than I had in the past, but that was about it. I wasn’t really expecting it to work. I used the cornea stim and base ring leaving the acrylic plug out to focus sensations on my penis). However, as a side note, if anyone has had success with hfo’s using the anal stims I’d be interested to hear how you pulled it off.
Anyhow. I started playing with the knobs while watching some porn, getting more and more aroused. The sensations were getting more and more intense. I would get up to the edge where I thought I’d cum but then I would slide back. The whole length of my penis felt like it was throbbing and I felt like I was just about to cum but couldn’t quite get there. About 15mins or so had gone by and it felt like my arousal level was starting to slide slowly back. I started to feel like it wasn't going to happen and that I just needed to lose the gear and have an orgasm the old fashion way when I decided to play around/push it a bit.
I slowly cranked everything up, the freq and pulse to 9/9.5 and the fine knob to 5 and then started slowly cranking up the coarse knob. It was really intense at first, but I kept easing in slowly higher and higher and the intensity gave way to lots of pleasure (as I crossed the 3.5 mark I think it was). It started to feel kind of like a hand job, but not really. Now I really began to feel like I was going to cum and every time that feeling would subside at all, I’d turn up the coarse knob a bit and then I’d feel like I was even closer to cumming. I was stunned in disbelief as the point of no return crossed over to full ejaculation. It was a very intense orgasm that left me pretty spent and satisfied. This was a few months ago and now I am able to have an orgasm every time I stim. In fact, in most cases I am now able to have two orgasms back to back without removing the gear or a rest. Oh and I should also note, when I do cum, the coarse setting is usually around 6ish.
My advice for guys starting out if you want to reach an hfo (from my own experience, I’m sure yours will differ):
1. You want to push the power to the edge of what is comfortable (for me I found I started feeling really responsive at around 3-3.5
2. You want to stay on the edge. You’ll find as you slowly crank your knobs you’ll adapt/adjust to the settings and the ‘i’m gonna cum’ feelings will wane. When you feel this ‘wane’ you need to push it a little farther (for me this means bumping up the coarse value).
3. I also like the pulse setting anywhere between 6-9.5. Between 6-9.5 I find the feeling to be very similar to a ‘stroke’ which does the job pretty well. Higher than 9.5 and it is just a steady ‘hum’ and lower than 6 and it feels more like a pulsing ‘grip’
Anyhow, good luck!